When you have enough patience, there will be good enough children

Patience is the most precious gift we give to children, only patience can witness the miracle of growth.

Respecting the pace of children’s growth and allowing them to ‘take it slow’ is the deepest love and trust for children.

Dad is reading an original: Get to know yourself Hey, I’m coken. Most of the time, our education lacks patience.

However, education is most concerned about and requires patience. Patience is the most precious nutrient we give to our children; Only patience can make the tree of life of children grow strong and bear fruitful fruits.

My viewpoint has always been that a child’s growth requires time and care, and cannot be rushed or urged.

Every stage of life has its own mission, whether urgent or not, it will come. Only with patience can children move forward step by step in the nourishment of love.

Lack of patient education is like pulling out seedlings to promote growth, ultimately harming only the child’s future.

The importance of patience in our family education is beyond doubt. The growth of a child is like a seedling that requires time and care to thrive.

Only when parents give enough patience can children shine brightly in the nourishment of love. The education of children requires the patient nourishment of parents, which is a subtle and silent process, like a gentle stream that cannot be achieved overnight.

Patience with children has become a luxury for many families. Raising a child is the greatest test of patience.

But in education, the biggest fear is that parents lack patience. In daily life, we often lack patience and easily get emotional.

Whenever a child makes a mistake or causes trouble, it will immediately attract criticism, and we rarely inquire about the ins and outs of the situation.

You will find that without patience, there is no good parent-child relationship. In such an environment, our children often tremble like walking on thin ice.

Let’s give a few examples: 1. Concealing oneself. When a child accidentally breaks a cup, parents immediately get angry and blame him for being careless, without asking what happened.

This kind of reaction will only make the child feel scared, and even the next time something similar happens, he may choose to conceal it, afraid of being scolded again.

2. My child was bullied by classmates at school and felt low after returning home, but my parents didn’t have the patience to listen to his feelings and only blamed him for not being sociable.

This attitude makes children feel like they are not being understood, gradually closing their hearts to us.

3. Self doubt: When a child is slow in completing tasks and parents lack patience, they simply complete them for them.

This not only deprives children of the opportunity to learn, but may also make them feel untrustworthy.

When we say that children are too difficult to take care of, it is more accurate to say that parents themselves experience too much pressure and pain, which can easily lead to outbursts when children do not cooperate.

In other words, even though we as parents lack patience, we always blame our children for not listening.

Children are always able to keenly perceive the emotional changes of adults. Children who live in such a family environment for a long time will feel a strong sense of rejection, which forces them to face parent-child communication more negatively.

In the long term, unconsciously, it has hurt the intimate relationship between us and our children, invisibly pushing them further and further away.

Children are like flowers, and the blooming of each flower cannot be separated from silent cultivation.

And cultivating requires patience. When we lack patience, it is easy to disrupt the pace of a child’s growth.

Examples of our lack of patience in life include: 1. Communication skills. Not all children can get to know each other on their own.

When encountering strangers, you should give them time to gradually get to know each other, instead of directly scolding them for not understanding things.

2. You need to give him time to explore his own methods for self-care ability, rather than directly telling him what to do or completing it for him.

3. Children are curious about everything around them, patiently waiting for them to observe and discover without disturbing, which is commendable.

4. When children encounter difficulties in learning, parents need to patiently guide them, rather than rushing for success.

For example, if a child gets stuck while doing a math problem, shouting is meaningless; You need to patiently explain your thoughts and encourage him to find the answer on his own, rather than directly telling him the answer.

5. Good study habits cannot be developed overnight, they require long-term companionship and guidance from parents.

Patiently supervise children to complete homework, help them plan their time, rather than getting angry just because of one procrastination.

Growth requires patience and there is no room for impatience. Respecting children’s pace and allowing them to “take it slow” tests parents’ confidence in their children.

We need to be more patient, after all, the world of children is much slower than that of adults. Finally, patience is the best gift parents can give their children, and it is also the most solid support on their growth path.

Only patient companionship can witness a child’s growth step by step. Education is not a sprint, but a marathon that requires patience and perseverance.

Patience is the sunshine that nourishes a child’s soul. Only patience can cultivate truly excellent children.

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