How to get along well with classmates in a friendly manner

Background: In the first semester of high school, the parents of my classmate Li Haijun came to school and talked about his child being excluded by other classmates in the class.

I had a long talk with Li Haijun, and later found out about some of his own shortcomings from other classmates.

I gave him some guidance at that time, and gradually he was welcomed by his classmates 1. It is not advisable to inquire about the privacy of classmates.

Students with good communication skills not only facilitate smooth communication, but also reflect their own cultural cultivation.

The protection of personal life privacy is increasingly valued in modern society. Classmates should pay more attention to mutual respect.

Do not inquire about or spread personal information such as family and physical conditions. When others are unwilling to disclose it, show a respectful attitude instead of repeatedly asking questions.

You should know that ignoring others’ feelings and casually probing will only invite negative emotions from others, and even hurt each other’s feelings.

Classmates should respect each other, even if their relationship is close, they should not casually inquire about each other’s family situations.

Classmates’ belongings should not be used casually, and items entrusted by others should be kept properly.

Classmates’ diaries and letters contain important personal information and cannot be used without permission.

Do not casually view other content during use, and return it to the owner promptly after use. Classmates should be given appropriate greetings when they are sick, and should not inquire about their specific condition, cause, etc.

2. In daily life, when borrowing things and greeting classmates, it is important to obtain permission from the owner when using other people’s belongings.

This is an important part of students’ learning how to interact with others and an important task in developing their social skills.

Through small things, one should be good at developing good communication skills and cultivating polite behavior habits.

Before using someone else’s belongings, it is necessary to seek the owner’s opinion in advance and obtain permission before using them naturally.

Otherwise, not only will basic courtesy be lost, but it will also damage the relationship between each other.

Although it may seem simple, this principle is a fundamental rule in our daily work. Ignoring these rules is equivalent to ignoring the feelings of others.

When classmates use other people’s valuable items, they should take extra care of them. Agree on a time in advance for borrowing items and return them regularly.

3. Classmates should respect and love each other, and not disclose their family wealth to each other.

Parents’ job titles and social status should not be used as capital for showing off. Personal property should be properly protected, and some valuable items such as new phones, new MP5s, etc.

do not need to be brought into the campus to avoid giving students the feeling of intentionally showing off.

The school discovered that the quantified points of the class were still deducted. The consumption of some students can also bring psychological pressure to students from disadvantaged families.

Students who cannot afford famous brands may choose to buy fake ones. Therefore, some students on campus, while engaging in high and excessive consumption, also exhibit a demonstration effect of vanity and conspicuous behavior, which creates external pressure on many students.

We should eliminate it. 4. Etiquette and politeness among classmates: 1. Sincere friendship. Sincere friendship is a noble moral emotion.

Therefore, we should establish the concept of “having others in our hearts” and be friendly and united with our classmates.

Classmates should treat each other equally, respect each other, and every word and action should be based on the desire for unity.

Always greet your classmates when you meet them. There are many ways to say hello, such as greeting, nodding, smiling, waving, or shouting a name.

To be enthusiastic and sincere. Loving others with your sincerity will inevitably receive sincere rewards from them.

2. Mutual respect: Every student needs to be cared for and respected by others. Firstly, respect the personality of others.

Mocking, insulting, and giving nicknames to classmates not only hurt their self-esteem, but also insult their personality.

It is a vulgar, impolite, and unethical behavior. Secondly, we should respect the living habits of others.

The lifestyle habits of each student are developed from a young age and are the result of subtle influences from family education and the surrounding environment.

Respecting others’ lifestyle habits is equivalent to respecting their personality. 3. Collective consciousness: Everyone cannot do without the collective, just like a drop of water cannot do without the vast rivers and seas.

Therefore, each of us students should have a collective consciousness. In collective life, we should consider the overall situation, abide by rules and regulations, and not act on our own.

At the same time as you contribute, you will also receive respect from society and others. 4. Being good at conversation is one of the main forms of communication among classmates.

Communication can increase understanding, friendship, and mutual knowledge among classmates. Students should pay attention to some issues in their conversations: their speaking attitude should be sincere and humble, their tone should be calm, and they should not put on airs.

Strive for elegant language and pay attention to appropriate occasions during conversations. Just kidding, be careful to say what you should say and not say what you shouldn’t.

When listening to classmates, one should be serious and not interrupt them easily. When interjecting or asking questions, one should choose the appropriate time.

If a classmate says something inappropriate or wrong, one should point it out sincerely and tactfully without hurting their self-esteem.

Quarreling, cursing, and being difficult to listen to are uncivilized behaviors and rude expressions.

5. Borrowing and Returning Items Students often borrow things from each other, but it is important to remember that borrowing and returning are necessary.

Even if someone uses someone else’s item casually, they should inform them in advance and obtain their consent.

Helping others is one of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation and an indispensable part of campus etiquette.

When a classmate needs help, one should distinguish right from wrong, understand the situation, and if it is right, do their best, act within their means, and lend them a helping hand.

Do not turn a blind eye or ignore them. If you are asked to engage in fraud or violate school discipline, you must have a correct view of right and wrong and not collude with others.

When you need help, don’t force others. Learn to put yourself in others’ shoes and consider others more.

Try not to cause difficulties or even trouble for others.