Education is about not doing these things that undermine the authority of parents

Click on the blue text above to follow what one of our parents and friends often says: “My child is a bit rebellious and often confronts my parents.

” “My child doesn’t listen to me and ignores my words. I can’t do anything about him. ” “I don’t know why, I have no authority in my child’s heart, and he doesn’t take you seriously at all.

“. The best educational philosophy is that when it comes to children who can’t be splashed with water, parents really have no choice.

Behind this, it may be that parents often neglect to establish their own authority and fail to pay attention to the following things that undermine their parents’ authority.

Not setting an example loses credibility. We often ask our children to stay away from their phones, but we ourselves stay with them all day long; Urge children to wake up early, but oneself cannot get up in bed; Advocating children to exercise regularly, but lacking the perseverance to exercise themselves.

For example, if you always nag your child to study hard, but in your free time, you either watch TV shows or play games, how can your child be convinced.

This kind of education is undoubtedly just talk on paper and lacks persuasiveness. You may also be criticized for doing the same.

Three meaningless arguments lose credibility. In life and study, it is inevitable for parents and children to have differences in ideas, but not all arguments are meaningful.

If you argue with your child over trivial matters, such as whether their favorite anime character is excellent or not, and ultimately cannot convince them with reason, it will only make the child feel that their parents are too serious and do not understand them.

Over time, the communication bridge between parents and children will crack. I saw with my own eyes the mother and daughter in front of me fighting fiercely over which color of the clothes looked good.

Some concepts are not right or wrong, this is okay, that’s not a problem. It’s better to lower your profile and smile and say, ‘My child still has vision.

‘. What a respectable thing. Authority is established without standing. To be honest, not only for children, but also among adults, many meaningless arguments reveal a person’s pattern.

Not arguing will not make people feel average, and the opposite shows their humility. Four hundred reliance leads to a loss of credibility.

Give whatever a child wants, it may seem like love, but it’s actually harm. When children become accustomed to taking whatever they want, they may lose their temper if their needs are not met.

For example, when a child sees a toy in a shopping mall and cries out that it is necessary, the parent immediately compromises and purchases it.

Over time, children will become stubborn and domineering, and parents will lose the dignity and guidance they deserve in the eyes of their children due to a lack of principles.

Wu disregards and loses credibility. Some friends allow their children to do whatever they want, claiming to ‘respect their freedom’, but in reality, they are indulging in evil.

For example, if a child makes loud noises or is impolite to others in public, and parents turn a blind eye, the child will not be able to recognize their own wrong behavior.

For example, if a child procrastinates or hastily completes their homework without being reminded by adults to make corrections.

They may mistakenly believe that there is nothing wrong with doing so, and their learning is getting worse and worse.

They also repeatedly encounter obstacles in interpersonal communication and social norms. Six sticks education loses credibility.

Some friends either hit or scold their children, and even use their own upbringing as an excuse. Beating a child may make them obey out of fear in the short term, but this obedience is only superficial, and inner resistance and resentment quietly breed.

For example, if a child is beaten or scolded by their parents due to a failed exam, it not only hurts their self-esteem, but also makes them fearful and disgusted with learning.

At the same time, it can create a tense and oppressive family atmosphere, and the authority of parents can be distorted into a symbol of violence and specialization in the child’s heart.

The prestige of the seven parents is not established by power and indulgence, but by leading by example, reasonable guidance, principled care, and patient companionship.

In the process of educating children, we should always examine our own behavior and avoid these practices that undermine our credibility.

Adults establish a tall and positive image in children’s hearts, making parents role models that children will always admire and trust.

Only then can the family become a harbor for children’s hearts, leading them to grow up healthy and happy.

END’s previous recommended education is that emotional outbursts can be understood, but problems still need to be solved.

Education is to help parents adapt to their children and restore real life. The process is the first, and the result is the second.

Education is not to expect children to win every battle, but to hope that they have the courage to start over.

Education is to firmly believe that children have unlimited potential.