Top students are all ‘forced out’! (Recommended for parents to bookmark)

Child, top students are all “forced out”. There are no truly stupid children in the world, only those who have been dragged down by laziness.

Diligence and self-discipline are the standard features of top students, but when parents “force” their children, their lives will be greatly different.

Parents must take a look at these 10 points, as they may benefit from them and find the best way to cultivate their children.

1. Learning has never been an easy thing, and it is the same abroad. Looking at the people around us, anyone who achieves a certain level of success must go through hard work.

There is no such thing as a pie falling out of the sky. Only through unremitting efforts and diligent research can one have the possibility of success.

Learning is the same, who hasn’t worked hard all the way through exams, who hasn’t had a lot of homework when they were young, and sometimes they have to be criticized by teachers for not doing well.

After all, children are not adults and their minds are not mature, so they cannot feel any happiness in this process.

Some parents think that education abroad is always happy, but in fact, excellent students abroad also need to work hard to achieve good academic results.

For example, primary education in Singapore is divided into six major subjects: language, mathematics, science, humanities, arts, and physical education.

In addition to the half day main class every day, there are also two tutoring classes. The tutoring classes are aimed at reviewing and consolidating the content learned that day, mainly in the form of dictation of words, sentence patterns, doing math problems, reading comprehension, and writing exercises.

In some private schools abroad, especially prestigious ones with a long history, the academic pressure is not less than in China.

For example, some good private high schools in the United States have exams that are as difficult as the national college entrance examination, and the requirements for homework and reports are extremely strict.

2. If you make your child grow up happily, they may complain in the future that their living conditions are better now, and parents have the ability to provide better learning conditions for their children.

Therefore, some parents pursue “happy education”, believing that the purpose of learning is to make their children happy, so they have no requirements for their children’s learning, and they can play as they want.

But have parents ever thought that if they indulge their children in not studying hard today, they will have to pay the price for their laziness tomorrow when they enter society.

What you call ‘happy education’ now may be ‘shepherd style education’. Children can play carefree when they are young, but what happens when they grow up.

Without education or skills, how can he compete with others. Society is very cruel. If you don’t suffer from studying now, you will have to suffer from life in the future.

So please don’t use “happy education” as an excuse to indulge children anymore. If you force your child now, they will definitely appreciate you in the future.

3. Learning requires appropriate pressure, and only with pressure can there be motivation. Nowadays, children’s living conditions are too good, and parents are reluctant to let them suffer.

Many things are taken care of by their children. Over time, children lose the ability to live independently, become lazy, and lack ambition.

So, it is necessary to give children some pressure appropriately. My cousin’s daughter has had excellent academic performance since childhood, and she also has high expectations for her.

She not only expects her daughter to have good grades, but also demands that she be versatile. So, my cousin enrolled her daughter in many interest classes, such as piano, dance, calligraphy, painting, and so on.

My cousin’s daughter has been very busy since she was young, including weekends and winter and summer vacations.

Someone once asked my cousin’s daughter, “Are you tired like this. ” She replied, “I’m sure I’m tired, but I really enjoy this busy feeling.

My mother has strict requirements for me, and it’s for my own good. I can’t let her down. ” Later, my cousin’s daughter successfully got into a prestigious university and even went abroad to study.

She said, “I am very grateful for my mother’s strict requirements when I was a child. If my mother hadn’t pushed me, I might not have achieved what I have today.

” Therefore, sometimes parents can give their children some pressure, which can actually stimulate their fighting spirit and make them work harder to learn.

4. Let children know that hard work is a responsibility. Many children may want to give up for various reasons during the learning process.

For example, feeling that studying is too hard and difficult; Or feel that their grades are not good, no matter how hard they try, they cannot catch up with others.

At this point, parents need to tell their children that hard work is a responsibility and a responsibility for their own lives.

No matter what you do, you cannot give up easily. Only by persisting can you possibly achieve success.

Learning is the same, it doesn’t matter if your grades are not good. As long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely make progress.

Parents can tell their children some inspirational stories from celebrities to help them understand that success requires effort and sweat.

At the same time, parents should lead by example and influence their children through their actions, allowing them to see the meaning and value of hard work.

5. Let children understand that learning is for themselves. Many children do not love learning because they believe it is for their parents and teachers.

So, their attitude towards learning is very casual, not serious, and not putting in effort. Parents should make their children understand that learning is for themselves, not for others.

Learning can help us acquire knowledge, enhance our abilities, and make us better and stronger. When we acquire sufficient knowledge and skills, we can better control our lives and achieve our dreams and goals.

Parents can work with their children to develop a study plan, allowing them to participate in the learning process and feel the joy and sense of achievement of learning.

At the same time, parents should also encourage their children more, affirm their efforts and progress, and make them more confident and positive in facing learning.

The achievement of excellent grades cannot be separated from reasonable time management. Behind every top student, there is a reasonable time management schedule.

They know how to plan their time and maximize the value of every minute. Parents can help their children develop a reasonable study plan and clarify the tasks and goals they need to complete every day.

At the same time, children should also learn to arrange their time reasonably, such as when to study, when to rest, when to play, and so on.

During the execution of the plan, parents should supervise their children to ensure that they can follow the plan.

At the same time, children should be encouraged to persevere and not give up easily. When children develop good time management habits, they will use their time more efficiently and achieve better grades.

7. Cultivating concentration is the key to improving learning efficiency. Concentration is one of the important factors affecting learning efficiency.

If a child’s attention is not focused, then he is studying
During the process, it is easy to get distracted and lose focus, leading to low learning efficiency.

Parents can cultivate their children’s concentration through various methods, such as allowing them to complete a task within a designated time, creating a quiet learning environment, keeping them away from electronic devices, and so on.

At the same time, parents should also communicate more with their children, understand their thoughts and confusion, and help them solve problems encountered in their studies.

When children are able to focus on their studies, they will acquire knowledge more efficiently and improve their learning efficiency.

8. Encourage children to think more and cultivate their ability to learn independently. The reason why top students achieve good grades is not only because they work hard, but more importantly, because they have the ability to learn independently and think critically.

They are able to think independently and solve problems, rather than relying solely on teachers and parents.

Parents can encourage their children to read more books and think more, so that they can learn to discover, raise, and solve problems on their own.

At the same time, we should also give children more free time and space, giving them the opportunity to explore and try new things.

When children have the ability to learn independently and think critically, they will be more confident in facing challenges and difficulties in their studies, and achieve better grades.

Learning to summarize is the key to continuous improvement. Learning is a process of continuous summarization.

Only by constantly summarizing experiences and lessons can we discover our shortcomings and make improvements.

Parents can guide their children to learn how to summarize, such as having them analyze their mistakes and shortcomings after each exam and develop improvement measures; Or let the child review the content learned that day after each study to consolidate their memory.

When children learn to summarize, they will have a clearer understanding of their learning and progress, and thus be more motivated to learn.

10. Persist until the end to laugh. Learning is a long-term process that requires persistent effort to achieve success.

Many children encounter various difficulties and setbacks in the process of learning, such as declining grades, lack of understanding of knowledge points, and so on.

At this point, parents need to encourage their children to persevere and not give up easily. Only by persisting to the end can we laugh until the end.

When children encounter difficulties, parents can analyze the problem and find solutions together with them; At the same time, it is important to provide children with more encouragement and support to strengthen their beliefs and determination.

When children learn to persevere, they will be braver to face challenges and difficulties in their studies, constantly making new progress and achievements.

In fact, every child has the potential to become a top student, and the key lies in how parents guide and cultivate them.

Here are some suggestions for parents: Lead by example: Parents are the first teachers and role models for their children.

Parents should lead by example, love learning, constantly improve themselves, and influence their children with practical actions.

Develop a plan: Help children develop a reasonable study plan, clarify goals and time, and cultivate their time management skills and self-discipline.

Encourage exploration: Encourage children to try and explore more, cultivate curiosity and thirst for knowledge.

Support children to participate in extracurricular activities, broaden their horizons, and increase their knowledge.

Cultivate interests: Discover children’s interests and hobbies, and encourage them to deepen their development.

Interest is the best teacher, it can stimulate children’s learning motivation. Pay attention to emotions: Pay attention to children’s emotional changes, communicate in a timely manner, help them relieve academic pressure, and maintain a positive and optimistic attitude.

Encourage cooperation: Encourage children to learn collaboratively with classmates, cultivate team spirit and communication skills.

Learn from each other and make progress together in cooperation. Regular feedback: Regularly communicate with children about their learning situation, understand their difficulties and needs, and provide timely help and guidance.

Building confidence: Give children more positive encouragement and affirmation to help them build self-confidence.

Make children believe that they have the ability to overcome difficulties and achieve good grades. Cultivate a sense of responsibility: Make children understand that learning is their own business, and cultivate their sense of responsibility and autonomy.

Teach children to take responsibility for their own learning and strive for their future. Moderate letting go: In the process of children’s gradual growth, moderate letting go allows them to learn independent thinking and problem-solving.

Cultivate children’s independence and self-management abilities. Please remember that academic achievers are not born, but are cultivated through hard work and guidance from parents.

May every child continue to move forward on the path of learning and become a better version of themselves.

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