Middle aged women raise their children to earn money

The pseudo proposition of how to balance work (promotion) and family (raising children) by paying attention and setting star markers every morning has been difficult for generations of women.

It’s like a shackle that binds old mothers, full of deep malice. Where there can be balance, it’s just that someone has to make choices and sacrifices.

There is another popular saying recently: Chicken babies are not as good as chickens themselves. I would like to ask, in this era where people over 35 years old cannot find jobs and have no room for promotion, is it chicken music, chess, calligraphy and painting, or chicken sanda martial arts.

These poems and distant places seem like a tight spell for middle-aged women out of thin air. I remember before giving birth, I had already done the handover work for my colleagues.

Just as I was about to enter the operating room, the client called to inquire about something. I said it was appropriate to hand it over to someone.

The customer stuttered and wanted to hear my opinion, so I had to give a detailed explanation before giving birth.

During maternity leave, some plans will be provided to clients as needed. My teammate said that I had a baby in my spare time.

At the annual client conference that year, I was also invited as a guest of honor. This may be the most dedicated party they have encountered.

But that was probably the most desperate moment of my life. 02 may be a watershed between having no children and having children.

Gradually, my career ambition was like the collagen on my face slowly disappearing, and my fighting spirit and waist fat slowly relaxed.

I am still working hard, but I won’t give it my all. If I work too hard, there won’t be any extra energy to share with my child.

Even mothers can remember those things on the way to raising children. At the age of one to three, it is necessary to study why the child pulls several times a day, or why they don’t pull for several days, what color the poop is, how to stop breastfeeding at night, and how to nap while reading with their child at night.

You can vaguely hear the child say, ‘Mom, why are you snoring. ‘. I’m in kindergarten now, and I need to deal with separation anxiety and frequent colds and fevers.

In primary school, both in class knowledge and extracurricular meals need to be learned along with each other, and teachers’ WeChat visits should be monitored at all times.

More scared than seeing news from Party A. After entering the first year of junior high school, it is necessary to choose between carrying bricks and accompanying children.

I reduced the frequency of business trips and declined an opportunity for job advancement. My child’s Chinese is like a soccer ball in the workplace, kicked around by me and my teammates, and no one wants to take care of it.

In the end, I took over this mess. The collection and organization of Chinese language materials, as well as the process of sifting through vast and boundless resources to find the most suitable one, all require time.

Everyone weighs around 100 pounds, working 24 hours a day, working overtime, traveling frequently, and not enough time to spend with their children, making it impossible to study these mother card assignments.

At this age, many things can be put aside, but the only thing to persist in is raising children well, which is for middle-aged women to earn the most money.

Cultivating a child who can be independent in both spiritual and material aspects in the future should be the greatest ideal for every elderly mother.

The biggest fear is having a child who needs to lie flat in old age, not having weaned off their thoughts, and needing financial assistance.

Really, if children are educated well, they can save money for people of all ages. Brainwashing style education requires children to understand things, be strong, and grow up to be self-sufficient.

Don’t rely on the elderly, it’s our best ‘pension’. So, the qualities, personality, and abilities of a child are the most worth investing in by an elderly mother, and these three points roughly determine the child’s happiness.

These things require both words and deeds, as well as intentional planning. For example, qualities such as being kind to others, being magnanimous, independent, and responsible.

It looks like I’m about to do something amazing. Actually, it’s just to let the child help wash a bowl, mop the floor, take out the garbage, and dry some clothes.

If his mother is too tired in the morning, he can make breakfast by himself and also make one for her.

If there is a problem, think of a solution first. Don’t keep shouting ‘Mom, Mom, Mom. ‘. In fact, when cultivating children’s abilities, elderly mothers do not necessarily bring in private goods.

Teammates don’t have long eyes, and the educational space is like a sponge that has been left to dry for seven days and nights.

It’s impossible to squeeze out even a drop of water. And for the child, a blank piece of paper, once educated, can provide a good source of labor for the family.

In the end, when it comes to the study of chicken babies, the chicken babies I’m talking about are not chicken blood rolls.

A capable child can be admitted to the top 985 universities of Tsinghua and Peking on their own, and they also need their elderly mother to be there for emotional support, companionship, and learning.

We, as Pu Wa, need the help of an old mother to get into college first and graduate with a stable job with a normal salary.

What are those silly words: lying flat, not studying, going to college is not the only way out. I can’t stand it.

We need to have a mine at home or think about a way out for our child in order to have the confidence to say that.

Otherwise, what will the child do in the future. If I were to deliver takeout, my biological child would be unbearable to me.

Every day, riding an electric bike or stepping on a wind and fire wheel, welcoming the sunrise and bidding farewell to the sunset.

Embark on a bumpy journey and set off again. Spring and autumn, winter and summer, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy one after another.

This song is simply tailor-made. It’s so hard, but I can’t see where the road is, for a lifetime. No matter how middle-aged women choose, their starting point is to hope that their children can have a happy life in the future.

If we cultivate children who have the ability to withstand pressure, cope with difficulties, take on responsibilities, earn a living, and can create happiness on their own.

This is the biggest ‘profit’ earned by the old mother. Friends who are interested in joining the group and learning with mothers, add WeChat, on the way to Jiwa, I understand you.

Author Introduction: A career oriented mother of two who has worked at overseas universities for 2 years; 5 years of research work experience; 12 years of raising children; We currently provide management consulting services for large enterprises.

Focusing on children’s English and Chinese education, tutoring over 5000 families for English enlightenment.

12 years of experience sharing from KET to TOEFL 865 scores for young children; In 2017, my second child successfully replicated the route and achieved independent reading.